If you could send me the link to a page that contains your map so I can take a look at it, that would be helpful. Its difficult to speculate what could be causing an issue without seeing the page first.
As for the extra option, I assume you mean having the satellite view and Hybrid views as well, is that correct? On step 4 of 5 in the wizard, if you select the Map Type check box, those buttons will be added.