Have you checked your db to see if the orders have been recorded? From what you are describing it seems to me that you have your store in test mode. If this is the case the gateways are not being used, this would explain why you are not seeing any details for the transaction when you log into your gateway.
Go into your globals file and look for the following setting and ensure it is set to false like this:
$WAGLOBAL_Test_Mode = false;