I updated everything again and uploaded and it seems to work right now. I had a few more errors on the pp_confirm page related to the e-mail confirmation send (set_time_limit) that I was able to take care of.
Before you invest more time with me - let me test this a little more but it looks like you got this straightened out for me!!! I hope it is OK if I get back to you in case it should not work but it looks very promising right now.
THANK YOU SO MUCH !!!!!!!! 38 Posts later and you kept your cool and patience - I really appreciate this !!!
Because of people like you = YOUR PRODUCTS ARE WORTH EVERY SINGLE DOLLAR!!!!!!