You will need to edit the ID column in the multiple Update server behavior to use the status column, Then edit the WADA_RepeatID_DetailOrderID hidden form elements value to the status you wish to update.
But won't changing the value of WADA_RepeatID_DetailOrderID to the value of the status I wish to update change EVERY record in the status column with that particular status?
It seems that if the records to be updated will be taken from the WADA_RepeatID_DetailOrderID hidden form element, then it really is an all or nothing thing; that one can only update ALL of the records with the same DetailOrderID and just SOME of the records with the same DetailOrderID.