when I add a second member or does it get destroyed when you submit it into the child table the first time. 
no, it should not get destroyed. send a copy of the parent insert and child insert pages so i can examine the code.
Another question - how do you display the result from multiple tables (Household Table and Household Members Table), onto a single page for the viewer to see in their browser?
this is very similar to showing orders and order details on a page. a good way to do this is by creating two separate results pages in Data Assist, one for the parent table and a second for the child table, then use plugins to display them both.
see the "Displaying Relational Tables with Plug-ins" tutorial on the Data Bridge support page for details:
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