Need validation to show beside submit button

I have a really long form (no getting around it).

When there is a validation error up the page and someone hits submit they do not know to scroll up to see why or if the form validated/sent.

I need to show at the bottom beside that there is a validation error somewhere up the page....or even better have it auto scroll up to the error.

How can I do that?

BTW I am using Validations Tool tips for Spry as well.

Once we solve this I need help getting Cookies Tool kit to work also.
Like what div do I select to add the behavior to?

If I "Store complete form in a cookie" I suppose I want to also add the behavior to "Set Entire form from cookie" as well?

Thanks!