The link you gave gives me a 'can't find server' error message.
The manage relational table server behavior should be used only to update an intermediate table. I'm not sure if what you are trying to do is a proper use of this server behavior. Please post back and include some more detail about exactly what you are hoping to accomplish as your end result and the steps you are taking so far.
Please also include some more info about the error message you are getting, exact text helps. With some more info about this and the error you are getting it will be easier to determine what may be going on.