Thanks again for your time looking into this, I think what I might do then is to set up an email address for each, ie. firstname.lastname@example.org and FORWARD the email in my Cpanel to the 'normal' email address, this way it will be clear what country was ticked.. long way around but any solution is a good solution :)
Another tricky one for you!
Is there a way to determine the order each field is listed in the resulting email? and even exclude fields like 'submit' there is no reason for that one to show..