Reply to eric
I've tried all the things you've mentioned.
I'm trying get the user to register for a paid service. I am trying to get them to fill in a form with relevant details such as first and last name, age, trade and experience. I want to store that information in my mysql database for contacting them at a later date.
Then after they have submitted their details I want to redirect them to Paypal for a remote checkout using paypal website standard payment.
The difficulty I am having is getting the details stored in the database. The pages I am attaching are a hash job not pretty. I was trying to add the required details such as last name and first name to the add to cart server behaviour having already added those columns to the ecart.