Rick,
Did you check the DataAssist menu in the Server Behaviors tab. While I am not exactly sure what you are trying to accomplish, everything you mention should be doable with the "Manage Relational Tables", Update Multiple Records, and Insert Multiple under the DataAssist menu. Keep in mind, this is not so much a wizard as it is just the server behaviors... so you will need to likely create the form to have the inputs you want but then you will be able to apply the above behaviors to add the processing code for you.
Best regards,
Brian