Is there anything else that needs to be enabled on the hosting side? I followed your instructions and located Universal Email 1 located inside server behaviors. I double click it and am able to configure the server and port.
I tried setting SMTP Server to either:
SMTPServer: relay-hosting.secureserver.net
SMTPServer: smtp-secureserver.net
tried both set to port 25.
I upload all of the files that change as a result of this to the hosting site. I test on the Godaddy based site and all appears to function including the redirect page as if it sent email but does not. Am I missing something basic?