i try to tell what i've done.
i take the original contactus.php and added above "your name" a list. then i highlighted the list and did insert->spry->list validation. like you told me.
so now when i open the contactus.php in my browser the list is there with 3 entries. "select - mr - mrs". when i click the list it turns yellow. i want that the first entry does not count as a selection. so only mr and mrs. but when i select nothing at all it do not turn red or green at all like the textfields.
this is my great problem. and sorry for my bad english