I'll do a test with select list to see if that is easier to understand where to do the manual step.
<li class="formItem">
<div class="formGroup">
<div class="lineGroup">
<div class="fullColumnGroup"><label for="fam_race" class="sublabel" >fam_race:</label>
<select class="formListfield_Large" name="fam_race[]" id="fam_race" rel="<?php echo((isset($_GET["invalid"])?ValidatedField("familyinsert","fam_race"):"")); ?>" tabindex="16" title="Please enter a value." multiple>
</select>
</div>
</div>
</div>
</li>
