UPDATE from real live person with incorrect data in database
I decided it would be wisest to approach the lady whose data appears in the database also as all fb's. I asked her precisely what she had done when entering information. This is her response:
"You betcha K. I clicked on the link at the end of your email, and filled in all fields except Fax. Said yes to newsletter.
Ciao for now,
Her name is Carrie. She is entry with ID 1176 in the database whose details are in the private area above.
She was actually the first to use the email link I provided by following the instructions in the administration area for providing HTML links, so that at least works!!.
But as you can see when you examine her User Record, she is showing exactly the same fb symptoms as I have described above.