Thank you. For #2 it seems it's working. Somehow it took such a long time to get the confirmation email.
For #1 it is not working still, but now if I type a wrong texts for captcha validation no error message but the form doesn't get sent.
I didn't think this was the case when I was working on it yesterday, I could be wrong. But anyway, the validation is still not working.
FTP info is in the private message.